 "Straight Acting" is exactly what the term describes- an act. Most straight acting people I've met are very poor actors.
— "Rey", over at Joe.My.God. The quote is in reference to the discussion caused by Joe's original post, "Watching the Defectives", a missive he issued at all those "straight-acting" gays who say that Pride parades hurt our community by only showing the extremes. I've complained about this very same thing in the past and have recently come to believe that my thoughts about Pride being too freaky for me were wrong. Someone I talked to this past weekend at Midsommarfest said the smartest thing about the parades, "It's a parade, since when are parades normal?" It wasn't the "straight-acting" queers who secured the status we have today, as much as they'd like to believe it (I used to be one; hey, it's what fratboys like to hear). It was all the people who had (or used to have) the balls to be themselves; the bull dykes, the drag queens, the trannies, the bears, the over-the-top nellies. It also says volumes that my sister, who just came out to me this year, values what Pride is to want to come to it. Pride is not a "freakshow". It's a time for all of us to join in solidarity and enjoy our company. It shows that we're not afraid to let the traditional media stereotype us, because in reality we know exactly who we are. On top of that, I'd like to say to everyone "Happy Pride!"(Photo courtesy of Evolutionary Girls Club.)Queued Up: Egoexpress - Live At Sirius Prime
|